2.03.2009

Who will it be?!?

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Well ladies! The Bachelor last night was a bit different without all of the drama and such but different in a good kind of way! I can easily say this is the first season that while i do have a favorite and i really hope it is her in the end, the other girls are great and i won't be completely disappointed if he chooses any of them!

I don't think it is any secret at this point that my favorite is Mel! I just think she is so stinkin' sweet and real and their connection is amazing. Its not just attraction and its not just friendship but seems to be such a great balance of the two. I love that he changed the date so that he could be home to put Ty to bed! It really says alot about his priorities and I love it. And I love that Melissa was so ok with it and had a great time just being real! And then there was the previews for next week.....my heart broke! Not meeting her parents is a pretty big deal but at the same time i really hope it doesn't change things. *sigh* I *heart* Jason and Mel together!!

Naomi's date was great and they really seemed to grow closer but i really really don't think she is ready for everything a marriage to Jason would mean. She is such a sweetheart but I think he has very valid concerns there. And the previews of next week...ummmm....strange. Looking forward to seeing what that was all about!

Molly and him seem to continue to grow closer and i do see a definite attraction there without a doubt! It just seems to me like there is something missing and i can't even explain myself further. She is adorable, sweet, fun, outgoing, laid back....I have nothing bad to say about her. I just can't quite figure out what it is that isn't there.

And then there is Jillian. I really really liked Jillian for him early on. But it seems lately that she is really struggling with her feelings and the whole process on the show, which is understandable, but it is affecting the growth of their relationship. And i do question if she is really ready for what his life holds. She is very mature...that certainly isn't the issue but I just don't know that she is ready to jump into being a wife and step mommy. I think she is very ready for marriage but I don't know that she is ready for the slightly less than glamorous life that comes along with mommyhood sometimes. We shall see!

And last but certainly not least, Stephanie. What an amazing woman she is! I have absolutely nothing negative to say about her. She is giving, kind, loving, and truly beautiful on the inside and out but it just wasn't there. That was a pretty emotional rose ceremony and understandably so! I don't think any of them are going to be any easier! He has 4 great girls. He's got a tough decision on his hands but if anybody can handle the situation with poise and sensitivity he certainly can!

If i had to guess based on what i saw last night than my guess would be Naomi will go home next week but who knows! I am trying so hard to keep in mind that abc is only showing us what they want to and so you never know! Its down to the nitty gritty and i'm lovin' it! Can't wait to see the hometown dates next week!!

So weigh in everyone! Who is your favorite?? Who do you want it to be in the end?? Can't wait to hear everyone's thoughts this week!

**ps...I am loving how great the remaining girls all get along this season! It really seems like they are all friends and truly care about each other even though they are all falling for the same guy! Its refreshing after all the drama this season!!

3 comments:

April said...

I think you nailed everything right on the head...way to go! I was really sad to see Stephanie leave. I thought she was such a sweet person, but I never really felt the connection between her and Jason. I think she just wants someone to be a daddy to her little girl, and rightly so. She was the first contestant that I can think of who left the show without throwing profanities around. I admire her a lot for that...she's a lady in every sense of the word.

I, too, think Naomi will go home next week. I don't know exactly what it is about her, but there's something that bothers me. I can't wait 'til next week to see her mom and the dead dove in a bag! WHAT???

I agree with you about Mel...I think she's my pick. She's just so warm and bubbly, but what's up with her parents on next week's episode? Could be a deal breaker, but I hope not!

When is Deanna coming back? Do you think that was just a ploy to get all of us to keep watching? Till next time!!!♥

Erin said...

Ahhh... I thought it was very telling at the end, with Stephanie in the limo, how she said "I thought he could be the perfect man in Sophia's life." WHAT ABOUT YOUR LIFE?! And then she said "Go to Heaven and see Steve." So sad and hard. I'm sure she still loves her husband so much, but she knows it's best for her daughter if she moves on finds that great manly influence in her life.

Not into Naomi at all. And same as you - love Molly - but just don't think the connection is as strong as with Melissa or Jillian. I really like Jillian - but after that spoiler video you "leaked" to me last week...I'm thinking you are going to be very happy at the end!!

Now that all the drama is kinda over - I'm really not looking forward to DeAnna coming back. LAME. Get over yourself. Not about you anymore.

I think your Florida weather came to CA. It's been beautiful here!

~love said...

i'm holding out for jillian. i'm thinking once they get alone time again, it'll come back.
although i haven't seen the spoiler video!!